
BUH-BYE, WRITER’S BLOCK! TIPS TO CRAFT A CATCHY AND COMPELLING DATING APP BIO
Some quick dating math: swiping is like 90% visuals and 10% bio … unless your photos are, uh, questionable. Then, suddenly, those few lines of text 100% become your lifeline. Yikes, right? We feel you. Penning the perfect bio isn’t always easy, but no need to panic, fellow daters! We're here to help you craft a bio that screams, "I'm interesting, fun, and soooo much more than a profile."
Why your bio matters (more than you think)
Think of your bio as your dating app trailer. It’s the sneak peek that entices potential matches to “watch the full movie” (aka, start a conversation). A boring or empty bio says, “This movie is probably going straight to DVD.” A great bio, on the other hand, makes people think, “OMG, I NEED to see this!”
A few minutes of your time is all it takes to be this year’s big blockbuster.
Common bio mistakes (avoid these like the plague)
Generic statements: For the love of Pete, don’t say that you "love to laugh” and “enjoy long walks on the beach" unless you actually live on the beach and spend 90% of your time live-love-laughing there. Statements like this are so overused they've lost all meaning.
Negativity: Steer clear of statements like "not looking for drama” or “tired of players." Starting with negativity sets a bad tone. News flash: nobody’s looking for drama, so leading with that just makes you come off as a potential complainer.
Too much information: Keep it concise and intriguing. You don't need to list your entire life story – share the basics and keep the super personal details to yourself until you’re a few dates in.
Empty bio: A blank bio says you’re either lazy or hiding something. Neither is a good look, so take a few minutes out of your day to draft something date-worthy.
Tips for writing a killer bio
Show, don't tell: Instead of saying "I'm adventurous," describe a real adventure you’ve recently had. "Just got back from hiking Machu Picchu – looking for someone to explore the next mountain (or dive bar) with."
Be specific: What are your actual interests? "Craft beer enthusiast," "indie film buff," "dad to a hairless cat named Bagel." Specificity helps you connect with people who share your passions.
Inject some humor: A little humor goes a long way. "My ideal date involves tacos and debating which Star Wars movie is the best. (It's Empire Strikes Back, obviously)."
Use emojis (sparingly): Emojis can add personality, but don't overdo it. Think of them as seasoning, not the main course. 🍕🎬🐶
State what you're looking for (subtly): Are you looking for something casual or serious? You don't have to be blunt, but you can hint at it. “Looking for someone to explore the city with" versus “looking for my partner in crime." See the difference?
Examples of good bios (and why they work)
Avid reader, terrible cook, and always up for trying new restaurants. Bonus points if you can recommend a local haunt with live music.
Works because: specific interests, self-deprecating humor, clear call to action
Just moved to the city and looking for someone to show me the best hidden gems and teach me how to navigate the subway.
Works because: shows they're new in town, looking for connection, and open to experiences
Fur parent to a rescue pup named Winston. When I'm not chasing him around the park, you can find me at a concert or trying to perfect my sourdough recipe.
Works because: shows they're caring, hints at hobbies, sounds sincere
Get the picture? Bottom line, you don’t have to be Shakespeare. Just be sure to ditch the generic statements, embrace your quirks, and craft a bio that truly reflects who you are. With a whole bunch of authenticity, a pinch of creativity, and a tiny bit of time, you’ll be set!